The Remembering Rite

A ceremonial journey into the in-between, where grief, memory, and wisdom weave together to restore what has always been yours

The Remembering Rite is a sacred one-to-one ceremonial journey for women standing at a life threshold. Guided and held by Beccy, the Life Weaver — the one who holds space, heart, and presence.

It is for moments when something needs to be shed — a role, an identity, a season, a certainty. It is for women who sense that what they are moving through is not a problem to be solved, but a passage to be honoured.

This work is not about becoming someone new.
It is about remembering who you have always been beneath the layers, conditions, and stories, you no longer need to carry.

Held by the hearth and guided by ancestral and elemental wisdom, The Remembering Rite unfolds in ritual, ceremony, weaving, energy healing, sound, and presence into a slow and intentional threshold crossing.

Together, we mark endings, tend grief, reclaim power, and listen for what is ready to return to you.

We work with thread and fibre to anchor transformation in the body. With fire to witness what is released. With water to bless what still grieves. With sound and silence to help truth emerge where words cannot reach. An ancestral altar is tended throughout, honouring the lines you come from and discerning what continues with you — and what ends here.

The Remembering Rite unfolds over a series of private, carefully held sessions, shaped by your needs, pace, and threshold. There is no fixed outcome, no expectation to heal or transform on a timeline. What matters is presence, consent, and the willingness to be met where you are.

This is work for women who know that remembrance is not nostalgia —
it is restoration.

You do not arrive here to be fixed.
You arrive to be witnessed as you lay down what is no longer yours,
and gather what has always been waiting.

Why Now?

Because women are tired in ways rest alone cannot repair.
Because disconnection has become normal.
Because remembering is a radical act.

The Remembering Rite exists because women have been asked, for generations,

to forget

To forget the wisdom held in their bodies.


To forget the lineage moving through their blood.


To forget the natural rhythms of rest, creativity, grief, and renewal.

To forget the hearth within them,

the inner fire that sustains life.

But when a woman remembers herself, she restores not only her own life, but the unseen threads that hold families, communities, and future generations together.

The Remembering Rite

Journey

This work will be held over four ceremonies, monthly or fortnightly. We can go at your pace and to suit your needs.

  • Opening the Threshold

    The first crossing. The spark of remembering.

    You step across the threshold and into Sacred Space, leaving the ordinary world behind. A flame is lit at the hearth of your story — a living fire that has been waiting for you. Breath deepens, feet root into the earth, and your body remembers how to arrive.

    The ancestors are called in.
    The elements gather.
    The unseen draws close.

    You are invited to speak your story into the listening field — to name what is ending, what remains unknown, and what is quietly calling you forward. Intentions arise not from the mind, but from the belly, the heart, the bones.

    Here, your weaving begins. You choose your threads — fibres that speak to your life, your lineage, and the threshold you are crossing. The loom opens. The journey begins.

  • Ancestral & Elemental Threads

    Where blood memory meets earth wisdom.

    You are guided to call in the ancestors — not all, but the Wise and Well Grandmothers of your lineage. Those who know how to bless without burden. Those who stand steady behind you.

    Together, we tend what has travelled through generations: inherited griefs, silenced voices, protective patterns that have outlived their purpose. You are supported to lay down what was never meant for you to carry, and to reclaim the forgotten gifts seeded in your bloodline.

    Drum and voice open the gateways of the body. Rhythm and sound awaken the deep knowing that lives beyond words.

    As you weave, ancestral wisdom and elemental medicine are threaded into the cloth — a living record of support, belonging, and continuity.

  • Grief Tending & Entering the Liminal Space

    The descent. The softening. The listening.

    This is the place where grief is welcomed as a teacher.

    You are invited to sit with what aches — personal, ancestral, collective. Through drum, voice, keening, writing, or silence, what has been held too tightly is given permission to move.

    A ceremony of surrender follows. Words, threads, symbols are offered to the fire — burned, released, returned to the earth.

    You then enter the liminal space — the between-world. Candlelight flickers. Stillness deepens. Time loosens. You listen with your whole being to the whispers of body, blood, and bones.

    Here, your medicine begins to reveal itself.

    These rememberings are anchored into your weaving. The ceremony closes gently with soothing of the nervous system, a return to Mother Earth, and blessing through the waters of life.

  • The Witnessing & Returning

    The rising. The blessing. The crossing.

    You are witnessed as the woman you are becoming.

    This is a ceremony of naming — speaking aloud the essence of what has been reborn. Your weaving is blessed as a power object, a talisman, a living reminder of what you now carry forward.

    The rite culminates with fire, sound, and ancestral blessing. Gratitude is offered to all who have held you — the Grandmothers, the elements, the guides, the goddesses, the seen and unseen.

    Finally, you step back across the threshold. Changed. Woven. Remembering.

    The flame is extinguished.
    The container is lovingly released.

    It is done.
    It is done.
    It is done.

  • Weaving the Rite into Living

    The Remembering Rite does not end when you cross the threshold.

    Integration is the slow, sacred art of allowing what has been remembered to settle into your body, your days, and your way of being. After deep ritual and liminal work, the soul needs time — time to root, to soften, to find its new shape in the ordinary rhythms of life.

    Integration is not about holding on. It is about allowing life to reorganise around your truth. Beccy will be here to support you should you need her.

    Walk gently. Move slowly. The weaving knows the way.

  • There are three rates of payment for the offerings.

    Each Ceremony will be 2hrs.

    Bountiful - for those who who can and want to contribute a little extra to help subsidise others - £110 per Ceremony

    Standard - The normal rate we charge - £90 per Ceremony

    Supported - For those who may not be able to access the sessions for the standard rate - £70 per Ceremony

    No questions will be asked and if this rate is not accessible for you then please do not hesitate to contact me.

ARE YOU READY?

This is for you if:

  • You are standing at a clear life threshold (ending, beginning, or in-between) and feel called to mark it consciously.

  • You sense that what you are moving through needs ritual, witnessing, and time, rather than quick solutions.

  • You are willing to move slowly, listen to your body, and engage with symbolism, ceremony, and inner experience.

  • You can take personal responsibility for your emotional wellbeing between sessions.

  • You feel resourced enough in your life (support systems, stability, rest) to enter a deep but gentle process.

  • You are open to ancestral, elemental, or spiritual language — even if you do not yet know what it means for you.

This may not be for you if:

  • You are not ready to sit with your grief, shadow, or ancestral patterns.

  • You prefer a purely intellectual or practical approach over ritual, embodiment, and creative practices.

  • You are seeking therapy or clinical treatment rather than spiritual and ancestral guidance.

  • You are unwilling or unable to engage in somatic practices like drum, voice, and energy work.

  • You do not feel called to honour the sacredness of thresholds, lineage, and the hearth.

  • You are uncomfortable with slowing down, stillness, and deep reflection.

  • You are not open to working with symbolic or creative tools such as weaving, threads, or talismans.

    If this work is not the right fit at this moment, that does not mean it never will be. Thresholds cannot be forced — they open in their own time.

Working Together

The Remembering Rite is not about fixing or transcending — it is about remembering.

Remembering the body’s timing. Remembering the old ways of crossing thresholds with witnesses.

Remembering that transformation requires tending, warmth, and space to unravel.

This work is intimate, earth-rooted, and trauma-aware. Each journey is shaped uniquely for the woman walking it, guided by her needs, her lineage, and the land beneath her feet.

If you are standing at a threshold and know that what you are carrying cannot be crossed alone — this work is here to meet you.

You do not have to know who you are becoming.
You only have to be willing to step to the edge,
and be held as you cross.

The work held by Beccy, the Life Weaver, is slow, intentional, and deeply relational. It is ceremonial threshold work — not therapy, coaching, or crisis intervention — and it asks for presence, consent, and readiness from both practitioner and client.

Wild Ways Woman offers ritual and ceremonial facilitation grounded in ancestral remembrance, somatic awareness, weaving, sound, and energy work.

This work:

  • Does not replace medical, psychological, or psychiatric care

  • Does not offer diagnosis or treatment

  • Does not promise outcomes, cures, or transformation on a fixed timeline

It offers presence, witnessing, and a carefully held threshold space.

All sessions are held with:

  • Clear consent at every stage

  • Choice around participation in ritual, sound, or sharing

  • Respect for personal, cultural, and spiritual boundaries

  • The understanding that you may pause, stop, or change direction at any time

Nothing is required of you beyond what feels genuinely possible in your body and nervous system.

Readiness Reflection

Before reaching out, you may wish to ask yourself:

  • Am I choosing this for myself, now?

  • Do I have enough support in my life to walk gently through change?

  • Can I allow not-knowing without rushing to resolution?

  • Am I willing to be witnessed as I am, rather than who I think I should be?

If your body responds with a quiet yes — even alongside fear or tenderness — that is often the language of readiness.

A Final Note

Wild Ways Woman is not a place to bypass pain or spiritualise struggle. It is a place to meet what is real, with warmth, boundaries, and respect for your sovereignty.

If you feel called, you are welcome to reach out. If not, trust that another path or time will open when it is right.

You are not late. You are not broken. You are moving at the speed of your soul.

I AM READY